Things that make this Mommy happy, from crafts, an organizing project, to silly things my girls do. Just a way for me to pay the happiness forward!
Sunday, March 25, 2012
A week of milestones!
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Pay it forward...
I was in the formula/breast pump aisle at Target tonight with my huge stack of formula coupons for all the different brands. I was trying to decide what to use and what to leave on the shelf for someone else. I nurse and we only use formula occasionally, so my 5 coupons that expire next week were a bit excessive. While I was debating Enfamil versus Similac, I overheard a very young, new mom talking on the phone to her mom. She had a very teeny, tiny baby girl...days old and possibly premature. She was trying not to cry, but tears were streaming down her cheeks. She was saying she wasn't sure she had enough money to get the breast pump stuff and formula and she didn't know what things to get. When she hung up, I offered her my Enfamil coupons that can be combined and add up to a can of formula. She was so grateful; I was surprised she did not break down in the aisle! I then helped her get the breast pump stuff she needed. I walked away thinking nothing of it. That is just what we do,\ a community of moms helping each other out any way we can. Maggie asked me what I gave her and I told her coupons to help buy formula. She replied, "That’s sweet mommy!" I didn’t even realize she had been watching the whole thing, taking in and hopefully learning how to pay it forward.
That new mom has a long road ahead of her. I hope my little bit of help tonight made her journey a little easier and one day, she can pay forward too!
I will leave you with a picture that makes me smile!
Monday, March 19, 2012
Capturing a moment...
Here are the attempts...
1st attempt...Baby not happy!!!
2nd attempt was close, but Momma thought we could do better
3rd Attempt…Maggie is always a struggle to get to look and of course Molly still sad!
4th attempt…Blurry and not looking
5th attempt...Hoping a nuk would help!
There were others, but it was when I was trying to decide what one to post that I saw this picture and my heart melted. I realized that it is not about the smile; obviously the moments where they are both happy and looking at the camera are not truly sincere. They were crabby and not feeling good. I look at this picture and I see my sweet Maggie who loves her baby sister so much. She was trying to calm her down and all the while I was feeling annoyed that she wasn't looking and I again missed a sweet sister moment. I love my girls! I am happy I captured this picture and will have it forever to look back on and remember the real moment!
Monday, March 12, 2012
My Sweet Maggie Clare Rowan Moore
As I was watching my Maggie tonight I thought my heart was going to burst! I was so filled with love and pride. I can't believe that in less than 3 months I will have a 3 year old. She is becoming so grown up. Tonight she got herself completely dressed, shirt and all! Then she sat next to her sister and 'played with her'! This kept Molly happy so I could actually eat dinner before 10pm! Whenever Molly would fuss because Maggie stopped talking to her, Maggie would say, "it's okay darlin' Mommy's here!"...referring to herself! :)
My Maggie came into this world on May 25th, 2009! She was a hard pregnancy, but the easiest baby in the world! She slept through the night by 5 weeks, before that she gave me two 6 hour stretches! She smiled at 9 days, laughed by 4 weeks! She was always happy, rarely cried! Then she turned 1! This is when the independence started. I realize now that it was always there, but before a year it was just things that made my life easier. She did not like to be held for too long, she was content sitting on the floor with toys for long periods of time, preferring to be left alone and showing annoyance when I would try and play with her. I see now that this is how she was made, a very independent little girl. Anything she can do to be more independent she does. There are times I find this characteristic in my Maggie, frustrating, annoying and time consuming, but I remind myself of how great they are too! It may take her 15-20 minutes to get herself dressed, but she does it! She is also very persistent, not giving up a task. When I was pregnant with Molly, I recall one evening fighting with her to get her jammies on. "I do it myself," was repeated over and over. I was a very tired mommy and did not have it in me to fight! Then the light bulb went on! I don't have to fight her if I just let her try. The things that are hard for her to do now are only going to get easier with practice and then my life will be that much easier!
My Maggie playing happily by herself at 9 months
When I think about the future and what my little independent girl will be like, I half shutter and half smile! I know she will give me a run for my money during those teenage years! But I feel comfort in thinking that she is a strong little girl, who will not let anyone push her around. She is not a follower, she has a mind of her own and she makes sure we all know it! Those are the qualities that are going to build an amazing person. It may make my life a little challenging throughout the journey, but I am sure the end result is going to be pretty amazing! :D
I love you Maggie Clare! You make me smile every day! :D
Saturday, March 10, 2012
My Blankie girls
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Feeling Domestic Today...
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
St. Patrick's Day craft
Family Days Make Me Smile!!!
A year ago my husband got the best news of his life...at least job related! He was assigned to his dream position. My husband is in law enforcement and I became very spoiled by his old assignment that was Monday-Friday, 9-5. When he moved to this new assignment a year ago he went to a totally irregular schedule, working nights and weekends. I am home alone with the girls at night most of the time. The other day a friend asked me if I get upset when I am the one getting up in the middle of the night all the time. Though it is hard, I really don't have much of a choice. I just do what I have to do to take care of my little girls. I can say that when he is home he helps a lot!
Monday, March 5, 2012
My Baby is 3 months!!!
My little baby was born 3 months ago today! I can't believe how fast time has gone. My little Molly Grace has brought so much joy into all of all lives! I spent most of the day feeling sad that my baby was already 3 months. I took some time for me to see the joy!
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Getting Started...
I am finally doing this! I have been wanting to share little bits of my life that make me happy and hopefully others as a way to pay it forward!